Better Living

The problems, difficulties and setbacks presented to us in life have a set of features that is necessary to know and understand properly to interact with them. This way is much easier the task of solving them. Fortunately the nature of conflict is not completely random: it has a structure, responds to a mechanical, presents a State and an interdependent system with its environment. Its dynamics can learn in the same way that knows of a natural phenomenon: a hurricane, a tornado, a storm. It can be understood how are formed, how they interact, what so severe are, how much can last and what damage can result. Like these other natural phenomena, they can predict and give scope to the anticipation.

A problem may have the character of a tornado in a person’s life and thus presents a parallel to strong emotions: anxiety, anguish, fear. One of the few but far-reaching differences underpinning problems in comparison with those phenomena of nature, fully justifies the attention that should be given them: known as they are, as they are started and also as they can finish. The latter is precisely what fails to determine a natural phenomenon. Enter in the deep knowledge of the nature of the problems is an investment that produces substantial revenues. It is committed to our quality of life and our potential for full realization as people. We know some basic aspects: firstly, it is important to differentiate the problems themselves of their causes and their effects. First thing, i.e. the precise identification of the causes, the main factor is to find the solution of the problem.

The second thing, the identification and treatment of its effects, will determine if the solution can, or cannot, be carried out. Understanding of this causal relationship can be efficient in conflict resolution. The most important error which we incur is assume that the problem is an entity, our focus is usually holistic.