The problems, difficulties and setbacks presented to us in life have a set of features that is necessary to know and understand properly to interact with them. This way is much easier the task of solving them. Fortunately the nature of conflict is not completely random: it has a structure, responds to a mechanical, presents a State and an interdependent system with its environment. Its dynamics can learn in the same way that knows of a natural phenomenon: a hurricane, a tornado, a storm. It can be understood how are formed, how they interact, what so severe are, how much can last and what damage can result. Like these other natural phenomena, they can predict and give scope to the anticipation.
A problem may have the character of a tornado in a person’s life and thus presents a parallel to strong emotions: anxiety, anguish, fear. One of the few but far-reaching differences underpinning problems in comparison with those phenomena of nature, fully justifies the attention that should be given them: known as they are, as they are started and also as they can finish. The latter is precisely what fails to determine a natural phenomenon. Enter in the deep knowledge of the nature of the problems is an investment that produces substantial revenues. It is committed to our quality of life and our potential for full realization as people. We know some basic aspects: firstly, it is important to differentiate the problems themselves of their causes and their effects. First thing, i.e. the precise identification of the causes, the main factor is to find the solution of the problem.
The second thing, the identification and treatment of its effects, will determine if the solution can, or cannot, be carried out. Understanding of this causal relationship can be efficient in conflict resolution. The most important error which we incur is assume that the problem is an entity, our focus is usually holistic.
One way of achieving conceive without difficulty is preparing to get pregnant. And how is it achieved? Since conducting a series of medical tests that will help us not only to know our State of health, but also to avoid any problem in the conception and development of the baby. As a compulsory measure, to prepare in the best way before pregnancy, is the query to the gynecologist, who will recommend doing a whole series of tests called preconcepcionales exams for preparing to get pregnant: A complete blood count, to assess the general State of health of the mother and determine whether there is any need for a vitamin in particular. Tests of blood type and RH factor, to avoid problems at the time of giving light which put at risk a second conception. In addition, also the man carried out the RH factor test to determine if there are any incompatibilities between the couple that prevent conception. Tests of blood glucose, fasting, for the presence of diabetes Melittus or prevent the development of this in the stage of pregnancy. This is very important because diabetes causes malformations of the heart in the baby and can also cause miscarriages.
Urine tests to rule out any type of urinary tract infection, which can cause premature births. Stool tests: to reveal the presence of parasitosis in bowel, causing the loss of iron, which can affect both the mother and the baby. Should also be: proof of rubella, to verify immunity before her and get vaccinated before conceiving; the test of Toxoplasmosis to verify immunity to infection and as there is no vaccine against it, you will be informed about the hygiene measures to continue to not collapse it; cytology to check that there is no alteration in the cervix that may impede conception.
Not in accordance with all this when someone called them by telephone or they were someone in the street, in the plaza where anduvieramos, immediately questioned them who called you? What I wanted it to? Why are you called? Who is? Of where what you know?, and many, many, more questions. With this attitude what did was to generate disgust in them because they felt that he was invading them completely and I, because felt that I hid many things and that they did not trust in me and therefore did not respond to my questions. Both sides suffered much. Now that behavior has changed. I’ve stopped questioning them and when they want to tell me something then I hear and I give my point of view if you ask me. I did so because I started to think how I’d be treated me. Change the above behaviors made me feel free.
With regard to that freedom that I now feel I wrote the following: free as a bird that crosses the heavens so I feel today. Free addictions that make suffer. Cherished freedom, this day has been reached. The road is long, however I am not alone, my brothers in spirit travel the same path. At the professional level, the masters has also left fruits. This semester ending tried to work with my groups in a holistic manner. I say tried because it was my first formal education holistic activity during a semester.
After a look back, I realize there is things be improved, but in general I am satisfied from what I dared to do. I have several ideas of future plans. One of them is spread in a more formal way the holistic education, another is the form a Committee evaluator of the companies in the city (which was an idea contributed by Dr.