Everyone in his life faced with a choice – to tell the truth or go to the deception. Sometimes this choice is painful, but not always, more often it still relates to our everyday lives. Often we are justifying their choice by some ethical standards. However, if you think about it, it turns out that to justify his choice to lie, we deceive ourselves. So one lie pulls the other. And if they do not understand, then successfully lied once, we are harder to resist temptation to lie and another time. So gradually we build around the whole fortress. But this just seems a fortress castle.
The fact that any deception, there are two sides – deceived and deceived. And each time, both sides an involuntary, second, consciously, are in a position ostrich burying his head in the sand at the sight of danger – in fact cheating, a distortion of reality. This is a manifestation of love, caring, compassion they talk about cheating in good? What kind of fortress can say, if it is not built not on real firm foundation? War – the path of deception, deceit – the path of war. The ancient Chinese, who said these words, he knew what he was talking about. After all, by cheating once and to avoid exposure, a person is forced to go to the next trick, then another and another. So the person taking the path of deception, which in fact is the path of war. And the most dangerous thing here is that this path of self-deception, that is war with itself.
War in complete exhaustion. It turns out that trying to protect themselves, their feelings, their own idea of itself, we are actually harming themselves and those whom misleading. If you think about this, it will become clear words: "He that loveth his life shall lose it: and he hates his life in this world shall keep it unto life eternal." Is it because it is said of the bitter and sweet truth lie? Each of us is a representation of himself and the world. The more shaky our understanding of these due to the fact that are built on deception, the more the truth becomes a bitter and dangerous, and the more we tend to sweet lies. And any attempt to tell us the truth, we will automatically respond in style – he fool, and he is! etc. And probably because somewhere deep down, everyone has an understanding of all this, people are suffering from depression, the disease is directly related to the distorted perception of the world and man himself. And do not accident, one of the major steps for getting rid of depression, psychologists call denial of self-pity. The main thing is to understand and make choices: first, a person chooses a path and then chooses the path of man