It is being asked like returning with my ex- ones, but everything what you feel is the pain and the broken heart? You have tried everything what this in its power to try to do that its ex- reconsiderarara its decision, but she nor she not even want to speak with you? Luckyly almost all the relations can be saved once it changes his approach. Independent of the reason of its rupture, the majority of the ruptures can be reverted if the pain can be contained that is feeling at this moment. Everybody almost commits the same errors when it is to return are his ex- ones. An ex- ones that no longer wants to have nothing to do with you, you ignore its calls and is pushed outside its life for always. To leave of preguntarte as to return with my ex- ones and learns to do it of the correct way. It is hour to ask itself what it really wants and why you again want that his ex- east in his arms? It is the love more than the same life? It must do all the possible one to contain the emotions and to avoid the irrational behaviors and impulsive thoughts. Not to resort to acts of pure desperation, like it blames and manipulation tactics! Good, I know that this does not want to listen now but it is necessary to accept the fact that its relation has finished, at the moment, by all means.
What to do now will give form to their possibilities of recovering to your ex- ones. To show your ex- ones that you are respected and you taken care of of same you when accepting its decision. Things that must avoid! It avoids the contact with his ex- ones. If they are calling to you, mail and electronic mail of repeated form must pause immediately. I know that you want to maintain to his ex- ones in his life and to avoid that she forgets for always, but this can push him or she even more to finish definitively the relation. The worse thing is to be ex- a desperate one and needed. To leave emotions them they cool off, this is a crucial component, especially if its rupture were warmed up more of the due thing. In this time far from your ex- ones it analyzes why their ex- ones finished the relation.
It deals to be totally honest with same you. You must swallow his pride and stop speaking of your ex- ones with the others. At this moment you do not have anything to lose more than its last opportunity in order to recover to your ex- ones. You do not ruin that the opportunity to return with your ex- ones. The love is rarely the reason of a rupture, and with that in mind you must understand that almost all the other problems can be solved if you play well your cards. It stops asking and to ask itself Like returning with my ex- ones, Takes measures and learns a method very little conventional that will cause that your ex- ones is impotent to resist to return with you. It visits right now.
If you come to Socionics as a science that helps to deal with each other, then we can solve many problems of everyday nature and social efficiency. Information metabolism (IM) was given to us by nature from birth. This is already scientifically proven fact. MI is the trigger of human behavior and an assessment mechanism. But the Creator made us that we perceive the world not holistically. Half of the incoming information is actively pushed, and we do not perceive it. Mounting behavior is formed depending on the location and contents of elements such as MI. Each of the types of MI has a corresponding opposite type.
According to the principle of dichotomy. A pair of opposite types is a single information system. This gives us the opportunity to see the mechanism as a whole. In contact with the opposite type of man he can survive the feeling as a whole, unified. Opposite types see as would be a mirror image of himself.
They are able to understand and see the most subtle and profound experience. There may be a platonic love. Do something together they could not and even more so, to live together. They have different ways of solving problems. But to get acquainted with the unconscious part of yourself and find the integrity, condition of mutual openness – perhaps. Need to communicate on some abstract themes and still be just careful. Consider the work of clearing house as a whole. The first function. What is the principle of existence. Zone of confidence man. For one, this is what "good". To the contrary, it will ignore the zone – "bad." This part reality that people do not notice. Does not want to accept, not admit into their consciousness. The second function – a place of creativity and its products. His "need". Here, people display their capabilities, skills. Can take risks in their activities. For the opposite type – these are templates and stereotypes. Area regulations. Its annoying those who violate its installation habits. "Do not." The third function – the principle of self-esteem. Location problems. Here the person is conservative. Poorly perceived joke. It shows increased anxiety. Through this channel the energy comes from society. Man manifests its activity. The more a person protected by the third function, the more limited from the world. Opposite type of show which way to solve problems. The fourth function – my 'want'. Score space. Unconscious. Here, people rely on their feelings and needs the help of others. Area suspiciousness. Her called the suggestive function. It inspires people the most. At the opposite type of a zone of fear. "I do not want, I'm afraid. A pair of opposite types: Don Quixote – Balzac, Napoleon – Dumas, Victor Hugo – Dreiser, Jack London – Robespierre Hamlet – Dostoevsky Stirlitz – Bitter Zhukov – Gabin Huxley – Yesenin This is a very good way to quickly deal with the work of the Information metabolism as a whole. The content of the elements of its functions it you can see in My issues mailing Socionics practical