Biological Experiences

I consider that all the biological experiences for which passes to oser since its conception until its birth, are registered in an unconscious matrizbsica … ' '. (WILHEIM, 2002, p.54) We know that to desire to have a son fundamentalpara is condition a healthy pregnancy. It is to precisoquerer to be father, fondness to be mother: ' ' … The important one is to be certain of querealmente wants to have a son. This is the good moment.

But it is very important that opai also wants … ' ' (VERNY, 1981). The couple allotment of this will and seprepara in all the directions, emotional, economic, social; if they become paisantes same of the birth of this baby, waited, desired and loved. Elesdesenvolvem conditions to be parents. ' ' To the light of the studies of psicanalistJacques Lacan, we can think the son while ' fruit of the metaphor of casal' ' ' (ABDON, S/D). To understand better what it wants to say ' ' dametfora fruit of casal' ' , Abdon (s/d) describes: ' ' The human being demand one another one. It becomes childish, then, it is born in gide of the narcissism of the parents. It is preceded of umdesejo of pais' '.

Before this comment, it is important to know the effect dissona future life of the child. More ahead, Abdon (s/d), following the thought deLacan, says: ' ' at the same time where the citizen appears of a demand of the family, afamlia also exists while demand of the citizen, a time that is it who a' alimenta' keeps it viva' '. It adds: ' ' … Is interesting, therefore, to perceive, before to dequalquer thing, the place that the son occupies in the family and the desires of the seuspais, to understand its subjectivity. From there the importance to reflect asfunes paternal and maternas, not looking for to understand them while funesisoladas and independent, but as of the citizen in the family …